true friends show true kindness.

I started dating my boyfriend Spencer a little over a year ago. But, before we started dating, we were really close friends. We met in the summer of 2010, the worst summer of my life. I was going through one of the hardest struggles a person could go through. At the beginning of the summer, I didn’t know him that well. I knew him through my best friend Molly, and at first, I thought him and Zach were slightly obnoxious.  We only had hung out a few times, before I was hospitalized in July. I was miserable, alone, and even though Molly visited me numerous times a week, I longed for some more visitors, especially since it was summer and all of my friends were out having fun, and I felt as if they all  forget all about me.  However, I didn’t know that I was loved by so many people, especially Spencer and Zach. I remember 4 weeks after I was hospitalized, I got a phone call from Molly saying “She’s bringing some special visitors”, but eventually told me it was Spencer and Zach. I remember how happy I was to see them, but also shocked, because I actually didn’t know them that well. When they first came into visit, they were themselves 100%, hilarious. They tried to flirt with one of the medical assistants, because me and molly found him extremely cute.  But the hour and half I spent with them in my room will touch me forever. They didn’t have to come and visit me, but they did. Their kindness they showed me think of Spencer in a complete different way. I would have never thought I would have ever dated him at the time, let alone fallen in love with him. Seriously, we are complete opposites in certain personality aspects, but that’s what makes it so great. He has taught me so much, and I know I have taught him some things. The fact he showed up on a weekend night at the hospital just to spend time with me, after they left, I just cried, and thanked god for blessing me with such people in my life that would do that for me. Thank you for all you do for meJ